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This programme contains strong
language and scenes of a sexual
nature and of nudity

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I'm nervous.

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I'm going to take it one step at
a time.

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In a world saturated with sex...
I'm absolutely petrified.

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...more young adults than ever
are living without it.

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The thought of having sex
with someone... Scares me.

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It gives me the ick.
I'm missing out.

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Terrified. Nerve-racking.
Gut-wrenching.

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Embarrassing. All I think about is
what I'm going to get wrong.

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Can you point to the outer labia?

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Nope.

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Now... Oh, my God!

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...12 virgins are getting
a crash course in intimacy.

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Social media, porn, dating apps.

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There are so many negative messages
and we can help them blossom.

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Use it by stimulating the area.
They'll be guided by experts...

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You see yourself as? Repulsive.

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...to explore all aspects of
intimacy...

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...and maybe even have sex with
a trained therapist...

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Do you want to put a condom on?

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...or each other.

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Get a room, guys.

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I really do need to change my life.

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Who will be ready...

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Desperate times call
for desperate measures.

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...to go all the way?

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{\an8}Get on your knees.

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Over the past few days,
the group enjoyed some playtime...

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Do you want to bark for me?

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Woof! Woof!

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...with guest expert Shelby.

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How did that feel?

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Mm.
SHE LAUGHS

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Yeah.

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Alex worked hard controlling
his anxiety.

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I genuinely feel amazing.

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Ellen made progress...

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Is that OK, like, me doing that?

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...building trust
with surrogate partner Kat.

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I feel on top of
the world right now.

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Yay! On top of Virgin Island!

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Yeah!

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And Tegan got into
the swing of things.

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Hit my hand with the dick.

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Now, as they enter the next phase of

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the course,
it's time to get technical.

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There's a lot of pressure
to know everything around sex,

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{\an8}so technique is really,
really important, because many

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{\an8}of them haven't tried anything
at all.

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This is what's going to prepare them
to connect sexually

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with each other or with anyone else
once they go out and start dating.

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Day 11 on Virgin Island
and the start of

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a new two-day phase of the course.

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The next phase of the course is
all about technique.

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That can mean so many things.

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I don't think I...any really good
technique.

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You want to do everything right
and not what I've just seen

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online watching porn
or anything like that.

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So I think the whole phase
is going to be good for me.

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It's going to be intense,
I'll say that.

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That I can agree on. Mm-hm.

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Oh, we've got sausage.

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Maybe we can practise technique
with a sausage. If you want to.

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I got no clue how
we're going to practise technique.

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As long as they don't say,

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"Right, guys, oral technique on each
other right now, in the pavilion."

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Red, red, red, red! Red, red, red!

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Yeah. Yellow. Er...

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THEY LAUGH

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Are you feeling good, Bertie?

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I don't know what they're going to
do, but, er, we'll see.

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In this morning's workshop,
Celeste and Danielle

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will show how mastering
simple skills...

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Morning, guys. Morning.

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...can take sexual intimacy to
the next level.

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I don't think anything can transform
around intimacy

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if you're not including some of
the basics.

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At first they're going

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to find this exercise
pretty intimidating,

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but I know they're going to have fun
with it once they dive in.

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OK, welcome to the next phase of
the course.

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You've already learned
a lot of skills,

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but technique is about putting it

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all together into, like,
a smooth flowing escalation.

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We are going to start with kissing.

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STIFLED LAUGHTER

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I've never been a fan of it.

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I've had, like, one person went,
"I'm going to make out with you."

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And he went...

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...and then that just put me off,
and then he started biting me

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and I was just, like,
"No, this is too much."

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Kissing may be seen as first base,

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but Celeste and Danielle know it's
the gateway to so much more.

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For me, kissing is probably
the most important thing.

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I just love lips
and I want them everywhere

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on my body, on my face, on my neck,
all over my body.

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So there's, like, a whole
escalation,

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even through a single kiss.

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It literally travels to the nipples,
to the pussy, to the toes,

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and that's what creates
a lot of warm up.

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So who wants to practise with me?

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Yeah. Let's do it.

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So far, accountant Tegan has thrown
herself fully into the course.

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I really want to not be
a virgin any more,

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and to experience the romance,
to be able to make love to somebody.

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I want all that.

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I was born with cerebral palsy.

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I grew up being told from a very
young age,

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"You might not be able
to do a lot of things."

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They told me I might not be able
to walk, so I walked.

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I might not be able to talk,
so I talked.

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You only get out what you put in,
you know?

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Good, and see if you can keep your
mouth open longer

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and see if you can bring your teeth
in a little bit.

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Right, yes.

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You really got in there. Yeah, yeah.
I felt a lot of contact. Yeah.

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LAUGHTER AND CHEERING

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Oh, I need another cold shower.

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Oh, it's very erotic. Mm-hm.
I felt it all the way down.

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Yeah, yeah.

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Next, the experts want to
up the ante...

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I want to invite you to try
with each other.

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...with some peer on peer practice.

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Who wants to give any one
of these kisses a try.

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Fuck it.

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LAUGHTER

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CHEERING

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First up are Katie
and Callum, who've been

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growing close throughout
the retreat.

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{\an8}Initially, I don't think I would be
a very good kisser.

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{\an8}I've never gone further
than holding someone's hand.

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Ever. That's it.

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I've never done anything.

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{\an8}I think it's funny, you know,
intimacy and sex.

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I find it quite humorous.

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A lot of people would say I am
quite childish.

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Working with Kat at the retreat,

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Callum is learning to step
up from boy to man.

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Right.

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Hmm.

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{\an8}You need to go a bit slower.

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Right.

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Katie, I love it
that you're giving him feedback.

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That's fantastic.

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And I like the stubble on it, so...
OK. So, yeah.

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Yay!

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Yeah.

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Also quick to pair up...

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Yeah, you all right doing it with
me? Yeah.

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...the island's other potential
lovebirds, Alex and Joy.

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Do you want to do neck?

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Yeah, yeah. Can I...

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Yeah.
JOY LAUGHS

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You can add teeth if you want.

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Sorry. I feel like I was
just kissing rather than, like...

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No, it felt good. And I liked the
teeth.

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Gorgeous!
SHE LAUGHS

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And you're OK with me
giving you neck kisses?

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Yes, please.

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JOY LAUGHS

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Do you want teeth? Yeah.

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How was that? Very good.

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Wonderful.

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CHEERING AND APPLAUSE

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Who else wants to try?

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I think that's a bit uncomfortable
for me.

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OK.

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Ellen? It's OK. No? You want...
No. Don't worry.

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Even if it's just a hand kiss.

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I'll do arms only,
if anyone wants to do an arm.

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I'll do it. Yeah? Yeah. Come on.

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CHEERING AND APPLAUSE

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Identifying as bisexual...

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Hi. Hello.

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...theatre usher Millie is filled
with horror

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by the thought of romance.

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When it comes to dating, you know
the other person will want intimacy

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and, you know, he'll want a kiss.
I just can't...

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...I can't give them that, really.

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I'm scared that I'm not
going to enjoy it

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and then, like, kill the vibes
instantly.

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Erm, OK.

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You can do it? Yeah? Yeah.

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OK.

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Is that OK? Good.

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Really good. Thanks.

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Woohoo! Woo!

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Any feelings?

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Obviously it's intimate, but, like,
it's very, like... I don't know.

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I think I need to try and relax.

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I think that will be something
really good to work on

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in one-on-ones.

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How's that? Yeah, I broke the seal.

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Yeah!

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Lovely.

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Did the little T-shirt grab.
Yeah, I saw it!

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And then you did the thing,
I was like... I was like, "Woo!"

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It was hot.

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Also feeling hot after the
workshop...

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Please, I'm not comfy! Ow!
SHE LAUGHS

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...Callum and Katie...

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...whose relationship has been
noticed by the Islanders...

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...and the experts.

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There's definitely something
developing, it feels.

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Totally something between them,
right? It's spicy.

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Yeah. It really looks like something
that he's been deeply craving.

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Mm. Mm. Mm.

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I'm going to work with him a little
bit on practising kissing,

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because that's a huge insecurity
that he has.

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In terms of being intimate,
getting it to the next stage

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{\an8}after flirting is
where it just kind of walled off.

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Hello. Hello.

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Kissing, it's quite a big step,
when it comes to it.

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I might be weird about it and then
they start thinking I'm weird,

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because I've never done it.

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Can I squeak in here? You can.

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I did enjoy today's workshop,

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but I feel like I could be
a lot better than that.

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Yeah. Yeah.

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I mean, we can do it here
if you'd like.

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Yeah? Does that seem fun? Yeah.

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If Kat can boost Callum
by teaching him kissing technique...

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Then this arm. ..maybe it could
help him

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to act on his feelings for Katie.

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On the lips? Yes, but...

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...I want you to...

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...go very slowly.

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Mm.

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And a little more up with your head.

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I like... Nope, not that way.

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A little bit over.

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I have a little bit of space
then I can kind of meet you.

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OK. Yeah? OK.

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Good job. How does that feel? Cool.

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SHE LAUGHS

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You sounded like such a dude
in that moment!

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Ah, I'm... I'm flustered.

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I can't even... I can't
even think right now!

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I had my first kiss, basically.

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I feel, like, a lot more confident
in actually doing that now.

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If you told me before coming here,
I'd be doing that in there,

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like, honestly,
I wouldn't believe you.

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BUZZING

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LAUGHTER
You're going straight in!

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THEY LAUGH

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I think you need
to learn the anatomy of a man.

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It's the first afternoon of
the technique phase.

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Are they your balls? Yeah.

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And the experts have given

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the virgins some toys to add
to their sexual skillset.

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00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:12,319
Sex toys can be seen as taboo,

252
00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:15,039
but it's really important
that they have time to just practise

253
00:14:15,040 --> 00:14:16,239
and play with each other

254
00:14:16,240 --> 00:14:19,279
and maybe just not take sex
so seriously.

255
00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:21,000
Oh! My God!

256
00:14:22,040 --> 00:14:23,959
You just twatted it!

257
00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:25,720
Oh! I'm so sorry!

258
00:14:27,360 --> 00:14:29,039
Still make babies, yeah?

259
00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:31,199
Maybe, I don't know!

260
00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:33,559
Since pairing up in
the kissing workshop,

261
00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:36,839
some of the islanders
are getting even closer.

262
00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:38,279
{\an8}This is nice. This is for internal.

263
00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:41,200
{\an8}Oh, crumbs. I shouldn't have put
that near my eyes!

264
00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:44,359
Alex and I,
I feel like we really connect.

265
00:14:44,360 --> 00:14:46,639
It's very easy
to feel comfortable around him.

266
00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:48,279
I came here to, like,

267
00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:50,679
overcome my issues with sex
and intimacy

268
00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:51,959
and this has happened.

269
00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:55,039
I would definitely say this
is, like, unexpected.

270
00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:56,999
Do you want a blankie?
I don't want one.

271
00:14:57,000 --> 00:14:58,919
Oh. But just in case.
Just if you want one.

272
00:14:58,920 --> 00:15:01,479
Oh, that's nice. Thank you so much.

273
00:15:01,480 --> 00:15:04,719
She makes me feel, like, really
at ease.

274
00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:06,999
It's like enjoying getting
to know someone,

275
00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:08,720
exploring that romantic connection.

276
00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:12,799
To smooth the road to romance,

277
00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:15,879
they first have individual issues
to address.

278
00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:18,599
You have a long tongue!
That's what I get told.

279
00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:22,359
That tongue going to go places.
Oh, my God!

280
00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:25,519
Ilil will continue to help Joy
with her vaginismus,

281
00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:28,079
while surrogate partner
Risdon will keep working

282
00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:31,479
on Alex's anxiety with erections.

283
00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:34,159
I'm looking forward to seeing
what has shifted now

284
00:15:34,160 --> 00:15:36,799
that there's this romance
blossoming.

285
00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:38,479
And we want to make sure
that they're equipped

286
00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:41,239
to deal with that. What's your plan?

287
00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:44,799
You know, this is a big thing
for Alex is the, like, performing.

288
00:15:44,800 --> 00:15:46,039
My goal is teaching him how

289
00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:49,559
to sustain an erection
as well as complete with an orgasm.

290
00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:52,399
OK, so, Ilil, you'll be seeing Joy
today? Yeah.

291
00:15:52,400 --> 00:15:56,959
So I want to give her a plan of how
she can start integrating

292
00:15:56,960 --> 00:16:00,399
a lot of engorgement,
potentially even orgasm,

293
00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:02,920
into her practice of penetration.

294
00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:06,479
If the treatments work,

295
00:16:06,480 --> 00:16:09,599
it could bring Alex
and Joy closer together.

296
00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:10,959
If I started dating someone,

297
00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:12,119
that is the assumption,

298
00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:14,079
that we get to a point
where we have intercourse.

299
00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:15,959
And yet if somebody tried
to touch me there,

300
00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:19,559
like, it would be pain,
and that's not a sexy thing.

301
00:16:19,560 --> 00:16:22,599
So we're just going to check in.
Yeah. Perfect.

302
00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:24,079
In previous sessions,

303
00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:27,199
Joy has been learning
to relax around penetration.

304
00:16:27,200 --> 00:16:30,079
We have dilators here. Mm-hm.
Do you have your own ones?

305
00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:32,679
Yes, I have mine. I can show you.
Cool.

306
00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:36,359
But now Ilil wants to go further
with a new approach.

307
00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:40,759
It's way easier to practise
penetration either when

308
00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:44,799
you are very, very engorged and
ideally, after you orgasm.

309
00:16:44,800 --> 00:16:48,359
You're more relaxed. Mm-hm. We're
rewriting the experiences

310
00:16:48,360 --> 00:16:51,399
around penetration... Mm-hm. ..to
let your nervous system and body

311
00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:55,040
know, oh, it's not this painful,
scary thing. Mm.

312
00:16:59,080 --> 00:17:01,959
Having made progress
with his erection anxiety...

313
00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:03,160
One hand.

314
00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:05,600
One hand!

315
00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:09,399
I can't even do that!
Have you been practising that?

316
00:17:09,400 --> 00:17:12,879
No. ..Alex is testing himself
further...

317
00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:14,679
Lay back when you're ready.

318
00:17:14,680 --> 00:17:17,599
...in the safe hands of surrogate
partner Risdon,

319
00:17:17,600 --> 00:17:21,079
to see if he can stay focused
until orgasm.

320
00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:22,240
No pressure.

321
00:17:23,360 --> 00:17:24,879
How's that feel? That's really good.

322
00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:25,880
SHE LAUGHS

323
00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:31,400
Let's just put that on the floor,
Just so it's a tiny bit softer.

324
00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:35,919
I know that working through
vaginismus entails pain.

325
00:17:35,920 --> 00:17:38,279
It will be uncomfortable at points.

326
00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:40,079
Would you like me to cover one of
the pillows,

327
00:17:40,080 --> 00:17:42,839
just in case you want to hump
a pillow?

328
00:17:42,840 --> 00:17:44,239
Yeah? Yeah.

329
00:17:44,240 --> 00:17:46,719
I know that some approaches
are unconventional.

330
00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:49,040
Doing this, you know,
it's clearly whatever it takes!

331
00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:55,439
Uh-huh, good breathing.

332
00:17:55,440 --> 00:17:56,639
HE EXHALES

333
00:17:56,640 --> 00:17:57,720
Mm-hm.

334
00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:03,199
Having really bad performance
anxiety, in my head

335
00:18:03,200 --> 00:18:05,199
I am thinking
that I'm not good enough,

336
00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:06,359
I'm not masculine enough,

337
00:18:06,360 --> 00:18:08,120
this person doesn't really want
to be with me.

338
00:18:09,160 --> 00:18:10,759
I start to lose my erection.

339
00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:12,279
It's then the panic attacks,

340
00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:14,959
massive heart rate, deep breathing,
feeling nervous.

341
00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:16,200
HE EXHALES

342
00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:19,120
Keep breathing.

343
00:18:21,920 --> 00:18:25,600
SHE MOANS SOFTLY

344
00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:30,920
Everything your body
is doing right now is perfect.

345
00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:33,280
Mm-hm.

346
00:18:34,240 --> 00:18:36,600
SHE MOANS SOFTLY

347
00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:40,440
HE BREATHES DEEPLY
Yeah.

348
00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:48,280
BREATHING AND MOANING

349
00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:58,479
That felt amazing. Yeah.

350
00:18:58,480 --> 00:19:00,239
It's like all the tension's
just lifted. Totally.

351
00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:02,560
I feel tingly, I feel shaky
in a good way.

352
00:19:04,440 --> 00:19:06,959
That felt pretty good.

353
00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:11,119
Before I put so much pressure on me
and my genitals,

354
00:19:11,120 --> 00:19:14,119
having come to this island,
learned techniques that can calm you

355
00:19:14,120 --> 00:19:15,439
down in the moment and just, like,

356
00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:18,560
lose yourself in your body is... has
been, yeah, amazing.

357
00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:21,159
Just give yourself

358
00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:26,040
a moment to kind of feel it spread
all over your body.

359
00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:31,400
How crazy is that?

360
00:19:35,160 --> 00:19:38,799
After orgasm,
using a dilator should feel easier,

361
00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:42,519
bringing Joy
a step closer to pain-free sex.

362
00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:44,319
Just remembering the breathing.

363
00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:47,320
JOY EXHALES

364
00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:51,920
So remembering that
the tensing is around the entrance.

365
00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:01,800
Yeah. You're all the way in now.

366
00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:04,639
There's no pain.

367
00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:05,680
Amazing.

368
00:20:09,200 --> 00:20:12,199
Happy with that for today?
Yeah, I'm happy with that.

369
00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:15,039
Amazing. I've learned something
about myself.

370
00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:17,120
I just masturbated
in front of someone.

371
00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:20,880
Like...

372
00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:23,240
...to climax.

373
00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:27,559
Fuck yes! Fuck yes!

374
00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:31,439
And then I use the first size of
my dilator,

375
00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:35,039
and it, like, just slipped
right in there.

376
00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:36,960
Fuck yes! Fuck yes!

377
00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:44,159
This has been so big for me
in terms of rewiring my brain.

378
00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:49,400
I think the idea of penetrative sex
is becoming less and less scary.

379
00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:52,439
The therapy
that they've been through

380
00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:54,799
has created such
a noticeable change.

381
00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:55,840
It's unbelievable.

382
00:20:57,320 --> 00:20:59,039
The more that they practise,

383
00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:02,720
the more prepared they are to go out
and do these things in life.

384
00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:09,639
How did your one to one go, Alex?
It was really good. Cool.

385
00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:12,199
I had a great time.
Do you have to, like, fully shower

386
00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:13,799
after that sort of thing
or do you just...

387
00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:15,039
You don't have to. ..baby wipe?

388
00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:17,639
Erm... Does it not just
go everywhere? Can you, like...?

389
00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:20,479
I usually shower, personally.
After wanking?

390
00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:22,919
Yeah. Jeez, I can't be bothered.

391
00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:24,399
I'd be having six showers a day.

392
00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:25,960
THEY LAUGH

393
00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:30,479
Hello. Hello, honey.
How was your one-to-one?

394
00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:32,959
It was very good.
Oh, you smell really nice.

395
00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:34,719
Yeah, it's because I
was really sweaty, so I had to...

396
00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:35,760
I bet you were!

397
00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:40,559
Was that good? It was really good.
Did you finish?

398
00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:44,319
Yeah. Yeah. I now know how
the people of Pompeii felt.

399
00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:46,959
But instead of pyroclastic flow
of lava,

400
00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:50,400
it was a hot,
frothy ejaculant everywhere.

401
00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:58,919
Right, I love kissing. Just
something I've really enjoyed doing.

402
00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:00,439
So as soon as they were, like, oh,

403
00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:03,479
we're going to practise kissing,
I'm like, "Yeah, boy!"

404
00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:05,439
Do it, do it! Yeah!

405
00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:06,880
THEY LAUGH

406
00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:13,119
At the hang-out, talk has turned
to this morning's kissing workshop.

407
00:22:13,120 --> 00:22:15,639
I think, Katie, you looked like
you were enjoying yourself.

408
00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:17,800
And I don't think I could have
done it with anyone else.

409
00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:21,199
I could. Oh, fuck you.

410
00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:22,999
It was nice to see the progress
from being too shy

411
00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:25,599
to do some things
to being confident enough now.

412
00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:27,919
Yeah, well done, guys.
Thank you. Thank you.

413
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:32,119
But for Ellen, it just magnifies how
far behind she's feeling.

414
00:22:32,120 --> 00:22:33,959
I didn't do the kissing on the neck

415
00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:36,559
because I didn't
really feel comfortable.

416
00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:38,759
It was a bit awkward.

417
00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:43,280
For me, it's quite a personal thing
to share in a group setting.

418
00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:46,639
You OK, baby? Yeah. I'm good.

419
00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:49,359
You just wanted alone time?

420
00:22:49,360 --> 00:22:50,959
Yeah, but I don't mind if you...

421
00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:53,439
I just wanted to come check
you're OK. Yeah. No, I'm all right.

422
00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:55,759
Because I don't want you to feel
like you're being left out.

423
00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:59,279
I saw Ellen.
She didn't want to do any kissing.

424
00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:01,719
She felt aversion. I noticed

425
00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:06,279
at one point she got very internal
and really couldn't watch.

426
00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:09,879
But she would feel comfortable doing
it with someone

427
00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:12,560
she feels connected with,
someone she feels drawn to.

428
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:16,040
How are you doing?

429
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:20,479
To help Ellen get closer
to losing her virginity,

430
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:23,439
Kat's getting her confident with
the basics.

431
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:25,639
I'm not very good at kissing, though.

432
00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:27,639
Well,
we can start with practising that.

433
00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:29,400
Yeah. Ready? OK.

434
00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:36,720
And you can relax your lips more,
like, really let them...

435
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:39,680
...explore. OK. Yeah?

436
00:23:43,120 --> 00:23:45,919
You're still a little bit like this.

437
00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:46,920
Sorry!

438
00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:49,960
Can I go again? Yeah.

439
00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:56,360
Is that right? How does it feel?

440
00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:00,880
Like, down below is, like, excited.

441
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:06,479
Feeling more relaxed, Kat wants to
escalate the session

442
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:10,440
to more intimate touching -
uncharted territory for Ellen.

443
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:13,640
I've never been touched intimately.

444
00:24:15,120 --> 00:24:17,640
I feel like maybe there's something
wrong with me.

445
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:25,920
I feel a bit of an outcast
and like I've done something wrong.

446
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:29,200
Yeah.

447
00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:33,239
Are you feeling OK about directing?
Yeah. Yeah?

448
00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:36,319
{\an8}Where would you
like to be touched first?

449
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:39,279
Softly, like, slow

450
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:42,959
and then down, like, to my genitals.

451
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:44,199
Down a little bit.

452
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:45,520
Yeah, OK.

453
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:49,320
Just keep letting me know.

454
00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:55,040
Just a second.

455
00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:01,240
Pass, pass. No, it's OK.

456
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:06,279
Even the anticipation
of intimate touch...

457
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:08,000
Yeah, just breathe.
You can look at me.

458
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:11,279
It's OK.

459
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:13,080
...is enough to overwhelm Ellen.

460
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:18,320
What are you feeling
right now?

461
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:21,560
You can't fail.

462
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:25,280
The only goal is pleasure.

463
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:32,679
No, you're absolutely not
broken. And there's nothing wrong

464
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:36,320
{\an8}with your reaction to being touched.

465
00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:43,120
It felt quite intense.

466
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:45,799
Just cross at myself, really,

467
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:49,159
because it's my fault
that I'm how I am.

468
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:50,960
And I knew I was going to struggle
with it.

469
00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:58,799
As the sun sets on the first day of

470
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:01,600
the technique phase,
progress is mixed.

471
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:04,439
Some move slow,

472
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:06,040
others more quickly.

473
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:10,800
You smell really nice still,
by the way. Thank you.

474
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:17,120
That was actually really smooth!
Thank you. Yeah, I liked that.

475
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:21,400
Do you want me to kiss your neck?

476
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:33,199
Cheeky! Too much?

477
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:34,240
Cheeky! No.

478
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:37,239
It felt good for me too.

479
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:39,159
Get a room, guys!

480
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:40,480
LAUGHTER

481
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:57,159
Those grapes are disappointing.
They're not grapes.

482
00:26:57,160 --> 00:26:59,200
What are they? They're olives. Oh!

483
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:05,279
It's day two of
the technique phase of the course.

484
00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:07,759
All right, lads. Boys only table.

485
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:10,759
Can I come on the boys' table?
No, it's for boys only!

486
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:12,760
Fuck you, then. Yeah, fine!
THEY LAUGH

487
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:17,759
SHE LAUGHS

488
00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:19,959
What are you giggling at?
That's the... I just spat on you.

489
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:21,759
Oh, really? I didn't... I didn't
actually, but I pretended to.

490
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:23,599
Oh, OK. Yeah.

491
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:25,920
As a member of the male species.
That's kind of hot.

492
00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:38,079
It's obvious
to see how effective somatic work is

493
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:39,879
as you start
to see people connecting

494
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:41,839
with each other on
an intimate level,

495
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:44,839
because people actually have
the opportunity to practise.

496
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:48,039
Then you start to gain this sense
of confidence and relaxation.

497
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:49,320
It's beautiful to see.

498
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:53,639
Alex and Joy
have shared their first kiss.

499
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:55,959
Come here. Come here, baby,
come here.

500
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:57,920
And now she's looking to share
the love.

501
00:28:00,360 --> 00:28:02,160
Oh, my first kiss of the island!

502
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:07,239
Did you just kiss? Yeah.
Stop stealing her, Joy.

503
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:10,199
Oh, are you getting possessive now?
Yeah.

504
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:11,279
Oh, about time.

505
00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:12,359
THEY LAUGH

506
00:28:12,360 --> 00:28:15,319
So if I...if I want Katie more...
You can't.

507
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:17,359
Why? Because she's mine.

508
00:28:17,360 --> 00:28:19,919
Have you said that to Katie?
No. No, exactly.

509
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:21,440
Not even kissed her, have you, so...
No.

510
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:26,439
Go on, then. I'm not doing
that in front of everyone!

511
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:27,799
That's so awkward. Uh-uh.

512
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:29,440
STIFLED LAUGHTER

513
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:34,920
KISSING

514
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:39,879
Oh, fucking hair in my mouth!

515
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:41,799
LAUGHTER

516
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:44,159
As Callum and Katie turn up
the heat,

517
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:46,240
Millie is still lukewarm.

518
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:51,319
The whole socialising with
a stranger

519
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:55,639
and knowing the next bit
could be intimacy,

520
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:57,999
I internally, like, panic,

521
00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:00,799
but I'm hoping I can change

522
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:03,959
and start doing things
that I've never done before,

523
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:05,760
even though it's going
to be very scary.

524
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:12,519
Millie's tasks
are to embrace her sexuality,

525
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:14,879
I want to help her see how

526
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:17,799
her experiences don't have
to hold her back.

527
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:20,439
I'm sure there's more secret desires

528
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:23,799
that Millie has tucked away
that we can get into.

529
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:25,919
Yeah, and I think being teased is

530
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:28,439
a way to kind of tease
it out of her. Mm.

531
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:30,240
I can handle that. Yeah!

532
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:35,999
So, a session
with playtime expert Shelby...

533
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:37,079
Are you ready to begin?

534
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,279
Yeah. Come on up here.

535
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,079
...could help Millie unlock
her true desires.

536
00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:45,479
Nothing in this whole wide
world matters

537
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:49,640
except your body and my voice.

538
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:53,759
Experimentation is how
we learn about

539
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:55,759
what we like and what we don't like.

540
00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:57,279
And playing
with different sensations

541
00:29:57,280 --> 00:29:59,559
with different people is a great way
for us

542
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:03,679
to figure out what people's
true desires are.

543
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,839
Have you ever
had your nipples pinched?

544
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:07,720
No, ma'am. Mm.

545
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:14,399
Ooh. Shelby's experiment to
discover what turns Millie on...

546
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:18,319
Oh, did you like that?
I did. You did? Mm-hm.

547
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:20,200
...is proving to be enlightening.

548
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:23,040
Your face is getting a little pink.

549
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:26,319
Something exciting must
be happening.

550
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:27,879
Yes, ma'am.

551
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:29,040
THEY GIGGLE

552
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:34,559
You're so beautiful.
Thank you, ma'am.

553
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:36,959
Shelby is quite hot.

554
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:39,919
She touched me in places I've never
been touched before.

555
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:44,279
And I'm, like, I really love, like,
the whole,

556
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:46,359
like, girl-on-girl aspect,

557
00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:49,240
so I think I'm still figuring
that out for myself.

558
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:54,319
As the day goes on...
Grab that pillow.

559
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:56,799
Yes, mistress. Put it there.

560
00:30:56,800 --> 00:31:01,279
...Shelby scrutinises Will's
technique in self-control...

561
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:03,519
Is that for me? Yes, mistress.

562
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:04,680
Good boy.

563
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:06,879
LAUGHTER

564
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:08,279
...and dominates Ed...

565
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:10,479
This is how I want your hair.

566
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:13,159
A handle to lead you around.

567
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:14,559
I feel like you could do whatever
you want.

568
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:16,879
Mm. I usually do.

569
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,079
...to build his confidence.

570
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:21,719
People will go decades thinking
about stuff like this

571
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:23,399
and never trying it out.

572
00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:25,639
You're ahead of the game.
Probably the best I've felt

573
00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:28,119
about myself
in a long time, being here.

574
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,400
I'm really happy to hear that.

575
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:44,039
Hey, Ed, how was your one-to-one?
It was so much fun. Yeah. It was

576
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:47,839
a choice between getting laid
or another session with Shelby.

577
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:52,479
I'm picking Shelby. Real!
Yeah, like 100%.

578
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:56,679
For Tegan though, the possibility
of sex is becoming real.

579
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:59,119
I think I still got a lot to learn,
but I'm also, like,

580
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:01,719
I definitely feel ready to go and do
it. Yeah.

581
00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:03,719
I think I've got metaphorical
blue balls.

582
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:04,920
LAUGHTER

583
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:08,919
Having conquered
the shame around her sexuality...

584
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:10,560
You ready to look at my ass? Mm-hm.

585
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:13,680
I'm definitely a lesbian.

586
00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:17,679
...Tegan has learnt many techniques
with surrogate partner Risdon.

587
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:19,199
Mm.

588
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:20,240
Is that good? Mm-hm.

589
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:23,679
So the experts think
it's time to see

590
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:26,759
if she's ready to go all the way.

591
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:29,599
Tegan and I are getting to
the culmination of her goals,

592
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:31,879
which are to experience
pleasure from

593
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:33,959
the touch
of another woman on her genitals.

594
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:36,080
That's exciting.
It is exciting. Yeah.

595
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:38,759
Tegan is doing phenomenal.

596
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:40,999
The excitement
that she's embodied here at

597
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:44,359
the retreat is really transformative
for her.

598
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:48,200
She is an ideal client to have
a sexual experience.

599
00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:51,919
For this rite of passage,

600
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:54,840
Risdon has escalated their session
to the bedroom.

601
00:32:57,720 --> 00:32:59,479
Up until now, it's been very much

602
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:01,679
like Risdon's been teaching me
a lot of things.

603
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:03,639
Whereas now, to lose my virginity,

604
00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:06,919
I'm feeling a tad overwhelmed,
a bit nervous.

605
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:08,200
It's hard to describe.

606
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:11,519
Tegan defines losing her virginity

607
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:15,520
as receiving an orgasm through
the hand of somebody else.

608
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:20,040
It's a very pivotal moment.

609
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:23,839
Hello. Hi.

610
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:25,040
Hi. Hi.

611
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:30,799
Whoa. That's really comfy, actually.
It's not so bad.

612
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:32,080
Oh. Mm, mm.

613
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:49,399
Mm. Nervous.

614
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:52,039
Yeah? Yeah. Mm. That's real.

615
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:53,199
I'm nervous too.

616
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:55,359
Just so you know. Are you? Yeah.

617
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:56,360
Cool.

618
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:00,640
May I kiss you? Mm-hm.

619
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:12,799
That was nice. What'd you think?

620
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:14,879
I like that. I got fanny flutters.
Mm-hm. Same. You did?

621
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:15,920
Yeah!

622
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:21,680
The session starts with slow,
sensual touch.

623
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:25,799
I want to straddle you. Yeah,
great. Yeah? Go for it.

624
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:27,399
Are you sure? Yeah? Yeah, of course.

625
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:29,439
It's so bizarre. What's bizarre?

626
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:31,399
I've just never been in this
situation.

627
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:34,879
Totally, super new. Mm-hm.
Yeah. It's really good.

628
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:37,919
Do you want to try the strap-on?
Yeah.

629
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:39,080
You want to try? Yeah.

630
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:44,279
Mm.
RISDON LAUGHS

631
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:45,920
Mm. Mm.

632
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:49,839
You're quite good at this!
Thank you.

633
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:51,320
Thank you!

634
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:57,720
Now Risdon takes the lead
in pleasuring Tegan.

635
00:34:59,720 --> 00:35:01,320
Touching you here OK? Mm-hm.

636
00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:04,040
Soft like that? Mm-hm.

637
00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:13,600
DEEP BREATHING

638
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:20,440
Wow.

639
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:23,640
GRUNTS

640
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:30,000
SIGHING

641
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:33,639
That was really good.

642
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:34,800
RISDON LAUGHS

643
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:37,159
Mm.

644
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:39,279
That didn't take long.

645
00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:40,720
THEY LAUGH

646
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:50,000
Thank you. My pleasure.

647
00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:59,760
Tegan! Hello. Hello. How was
your thing?

648
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:03,520
My head's a bit fried right now,
I feel great!

649
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:06,479
Let's just say, I'm not
a virgin any more.

650
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:09,319
Shut up! Yes!

651
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:10,719
Tegan! Sit down!

652
00:36:10,720 --> 00:36:12,040
Basically, I just lost my virginity.

653
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:14,440
I feel like jumping for joy!

654
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:17,679
Oh! Oh!

655
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:20,279
Confidence. Your cheeks are so rosy.

656
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:24,279
All these phases have just,
like, kind of helped me grow.

657
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:26,199
I can't wait to take
all these different skills

658
00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:27,999
and tricks into the real world,

659
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:31,399
and hopefully find myself
a girlfriend after this.

660
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:35,439
I have little to no concerns
about Tegan out in the world.

661
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:37,319
I am mostly concerned

662
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:40,800
for the lesbians of Glasgow
because here she comes.

663
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:47,439
Oh! It's fantastic. Oh!
So happy. Well done, Teegs!

664
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:48,959
Now we're 11 virgins left. Yeah.

665
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:50,639
APPLAUSE

666
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:52,119
So happy. Big up, big up.

667
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:54,359
Shall we have a group hug?
Yeah! Let's go.

668
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:55,679
Everyone can get in.

669
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:58,799
On three, two, one, say, "Tegan's
not a virgin!"

670
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:00,159
Three, two, one.

671
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:02,400
Tegan's not a virgin!

672
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:05,160
Thanks, guys! Well done, Teegs!

673
00:37:16,240 --> 00:37:17,400
It's the afternoon...

674
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:20,359
Whoa! That can kill someone.

675
00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:21,840
LAUGHTER

676
00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:26,279
...and an advanced sex toy lesson
proves pleasure

677
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:29,279
doesn't always require human touch.

678
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:32,999
{\an8}You can use it by stimulating
and warming up the area.

679
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:35,000
Close your eyes and try it out.

680
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:39,279
Vibrators are really good
because the clit often needs

681
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:40,999
an intense amount of stimulation.

682
00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:42,039
That's heavy.

683
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:43,239
SHE LAUGHS

684
00:37:43,240 --> 00:37:45,999
And especially for women who have
a difficult time coming,

685
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:47,319
sometimes they won't be able
to come

686
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:49,480
ever if they don't use a vibrator.

687
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:53,519
Erm, yeah, I've done it like
a couple of times,

688
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:56,960
but I find I can't
quite reach orgasm.

689
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:00,720
I don't think I've ever had
an orgasm.

690
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:04,559
If I do have a sexual thought,

691
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:08,760
I just try and ignore it because
I've never really explored...

692
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:11,080
...that area.

693
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:19,279
After feeling overwhelmed
in the previous session...

694
00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:22,839
Hello. How are you?
...Kat has tried a different tactic

695
00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:25,520
to get Ellen comfortable
with intimate touch.

696
00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:29,919
The reason that I have the table is
to make it safe

697
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:32,399
to have a more non-erotic
exploration. OK.

698
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:34,480
Does that feel OK? Yeah, yeah.

699
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:39,800
Ready? Yeah.

700
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:42,119
And if anything makes

701
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:43,920
you uncomfortable,
just let me know.

702
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:48,439
As Ellen
and I move into deeper intimacy,

703
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:51,359
it's more apparent how she can
sometimes shut down.

704
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:53,119
And so that's something
we're really working on,

705
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:56,559
is helping her to sit with herself
in those moments.

706
00:38:56,560 --> 00:39:01,039
To remind her that she is in control
so that she feels safe.

707
00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:03,480
And then she can choose to take
the final steps.

708
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:07,959
It's still OK? Yeah.

709
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:09,399
Can we just stop for a second?

710
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:10,520
Of course, of course.

711
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:20,239
Is there anything that you need?

712
00:39:20,240 --> 00:39:22,360
Just a second.
Yeah, of course.

713
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:25,679
OK.

714
00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:27,800
Are you sure? Yeah.

715
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,239
Just, like, I kind of just needed
a minute,

716
00:39:31,240 --> 00:39:33,039
but it's OK. OK.

717
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:36,040
And tell me if anything's, like,
too fast, too, yeah?

718
00:39:37,720 --> 00:39:38,760
Mm.

719
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:46,399
DEEP EXHALATION

720
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:48,519
Hmm. How are you feeling?

721
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:50,279
Good. Yeah? Yeah.

722
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:51,839
Like, very good.

723
00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:54,320
I haven't had that, like, before.

724
00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:00,839
So, really happy that
you were able to be, like,

725
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:03,399
wait, hold on, and kind of go into
yourself... Yeah.

726
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:05,599
...and then know when you were
ready to engage again.

727
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:06,679
That's really good.

728
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:08,400
OK. Thank you. Yeah.

729
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:12,719
When I first walked on the island,
I didn't even think I would

730
00:40:12,720 --> 00:40:15,479
take my bra off
in front of someone else.

731
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:20,159
So I feel like I've come a long way,
and now I'm looking forward

732
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:23,560
to hopefully losing my virginity
on the island.

733
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:37,079
Do want to try a bit of tongue?
Ah, I have to see,

734
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:39,279
I don't know about the texture.
That's fair.

735
00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:42,159
Do a little teeth, but not too hard,
if you don't mind.

736
00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:43,719
No, nope. No worries.

737
00:40:43,720 --> 00:40:45,159
GIGGLING

738
00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:47,799
I just need to...
I need to get over that blockage.

739
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:48,840
Yeah.

740
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:54,760
Since her one-on-one with Shelby,
Millie has begun exploring intimacy.

741
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:57,679
During our one-on-one,

742
00:40:57,680 --> 00:41:02,439
she really got in touch with
a lot of new sensations.

743
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:07,680
I really want to explore with her
her feelings around boundaries.

744
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:11,159
I feel that there's some sort of

745
00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:14,759
{\an8}shame that holds her back from
exploring who she is

746
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:19,040
and how she can develop deeper
romantic relationships.

747
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:24,359
I definitely want to get over
the obstacle of kissing,

748
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:26,519
because I feel like there's quite
a bit of,

749
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:28,159
like, relationship blooming.

750
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:30,159
Your hands are freezing. OK!

751
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:33,719
I didn't even realise I was cold.
Alex and Joy,

752
00:41:33,720 --> 00:41:36,439
they've been getting really close
to each other.

753
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:38,199
♪ Can I lean on you? ♪
Yeah, of course.

754
00:41:38,200 --> 00:41:39,600
Do you want to come here? Mm-hm.

755
00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:44,159
And then you've got Callum and
Katie.

756
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:45,879
I can't move!
LAUGHTER

757
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:48,799
They're getting more comfortable in
each other's, like, space.

758
00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:49,879
Callum!

759
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:51,080
La-la-la!

760
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:54,599
And I'm sort of
just, like, watching them.

761
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:57,720
And I'm just, like, oh, why can't
that be me?

762
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:04,119
So I actually wanted to follow up
a little bit on the kissing.

763
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:07,359
You seemed a little bit, like,
yuck... yucked by kissing.

764
00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:10,799
Dunno. My friends just seem to be
able to do it easily...

765
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:12,399
Mm-hm. ..and I'm, like, OK,

766
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:15,559
why can't I feel nice when it comes
to, like... Yeah, yeah.

767
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:17,719
...dating and things like that?

768
00:42:17,720 --> 00:42:20,519
To help Millie focus on
what's holding her back...

769
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:22,080
Can I hold your hands? Yeah.

770
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:26,679
...Danielle plans to use
a focused breathing technique.

771
00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:30,920
SHE BREATHES DEEPLY

772
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:37,599
I can feel a thing in my throat.
Don't try to push it away.

773
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:39,959
That's what I do, though.
I know. It's OK.

774
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:41,479
Let's not fight it.

775
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:43,959
You already know
the truth inside you, right?

776
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:45,000
Mm-hm. Yeah.

777
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:47,600
Do you want to tell me?

778
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:59,959
Erm, I feel like I've got more
preference to female.

779
00:42:59,960 --> 00:43:02,840
I've never been attractive to,
like, guys.

780
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:10,119
So what's happening
when you say about,

781
00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:13,039
I mean, to women?
Oh, I just feel like I want to cry.

782
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:15,480
Yeah. It's not easy to come out.

783
00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:19,439
Oh. It's a lot, huh?

784
00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:21,319
Just saying them words out loud

785
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:24,759
and it's just, like, I think
because I've covered them

786
00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:27,919
for such a long time, it's, like,
really hard.

787
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:28,960
Yeah.

788
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:37,039
I feel like people won't accept me.
Yeah. Yeah.

789
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:41,119
My older sister's disabled and
there's a pressure on me of, like,

790
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:44,119
I'm the one that's meant to, like,
get married and have kids.

791
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:45,199
And you're scared

792
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:47,999
that if you're going to come out,
you're going to lose love.

793
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:50,639
And that's normal to feel like that.

794
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:53,200
We all want to belong. Yeah.

795
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:57,839
Can you peek with one eye
like you're doing now

796
00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:00,679
and see
that I don't judge you at all?

797
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:02,919
Yeah. Yeah? Mm-hm.

798
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:08,800
And I appreciate you
and respect you just the same.

799
00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:10,880
Thanks.

800
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:16,239
OK, darling. Ready for a hug?
Yeah.

801
00:44:16,240 --> 00:44:18,279
I'd quite love a hug.

802
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:19,280
OK.

803
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:28,880
As the sun sets...

804
00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:32,399
Can I have everybody's attention?

805
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:35,799
...the islanders have gathered to say
a fond farewell.

806
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:38,679
Shelby has brought
in this beautiful way

807
00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:40,919
of looking at playtime
and she's going

808
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:43,159
to be leaving tomorrow,
so we all want to thank her.

809
00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:45,040
Thank you, Shelby.

810
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:49,239
Woo! Woo!

811
00:44:49,240 --> 00:44:52,879
Shelby helped many unlock
hidden desires,

812
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:55,839
including Millie,
who wants to share with the group.

813
00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:56,840
Erm...

814
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:04,960
For years I was used, like, erm...

815
00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:09,719
...my sexuality, because I'm like,
oh, but I like boys, you know,

816
00:45:09,720 --> 00:45:11,719
that's kind of normal.

817
00:45:11,720 --> 00:45:13,280
Erm, sorry...

818
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:16,440
You got this, Mills.

819
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:21,480
Yeah. OK. I'm just going to say it.
Erm...

820
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:24,799
I think deep down

821
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:26,040
I've liked girls.

822
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:28,640
Yeah, I just thought...

823
00:45:29,720 --> 00:45:31,399
...you need to, like, say it.

824
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:35,080
Otherwise I'll be living
in this life of, like, not being me.

825
00:45:36,240 --> 00:45:38,039
No, well done. Woo!

826
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:39,479
The ladies like you, Millie.

827
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:42,040
Cheers to loving women!
CHEERING AND APPLAUSE

828
00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:44,919
I'm proud of you.

829
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:48,399
As hard as it was,
I'm really glad I said it.

830
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:53,039
Erm, yeah, it's lifted, like, a
ton of bricks off my shoulders.

831
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:57,360
I don't need to be ashamed.
It's OK to be a lesbian.

832
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:03,319
Next time...

833
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:05,919
Tegan, will you have sex with me?
Of course.

834
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:08,120
...the group explores
the art of seduction.

835
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:13,599
Will you clutch my crotch?

836
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:15,720
More major milestones are reached.

837
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:23,439
And in an island first, one
connection is set to intensify.

838
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:26,359
What's happening there?
Horny island.

839
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:28,999
Does that feel like something
that you want?

840
00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:30,439
I'd be keen.

841
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:33,359
If you've identified with
the issues raised in Virgin Island

842
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:36,520
and would like to be part of a
possible new series, visit...